CHILDREN ABUSE

All parents must have at times felt angry with his son. Addressing the child's behavior is not easy. Just by saying "no" it is not necessarily able to muffle the annoying attitude.
In the face of attitudes and behaviors of children who are difficult and more parents are out of control, so to say or do something harmful to children so that they regret later.
If this situation is often repeated, it is said to be child abuse, both physically and mentally. Some criteria include behaviors such as torture:
• Punishing children in excess
• Beating
• inciting the tip of the cigarette, burning, slapping, slamming
• Constantly criticizing, threatening, or showing the attitude of rejection towards the child
• Sexual Harassment
• Striking an aggressive child
• Ignoring the child; no attention to the need to eat, play, affection and provide adequate security.

In the opinion of Vander Zanden (1989), the behavior can be defined torture as a form of physical assault or injure the child; and deed is done precisely by the caregivers (parents or caregivers of non-family).
According to research data revealed that physical torture experienced by many children from infancy, and continues until early childhood through adolescence.
Another opinion of the psychiatrists who gathered in the Community Association for Preventing Violence in Children in the UK (1999).
They argue that the neglect of children is also an attitude of torture but rather passive. The effects of torture and neglect against children alike bring bad consequences. To know more clearly what and to what extent the impact of parents' attitudes are so, you can look at our article on the impact of parental abuse and neglect against children.
Against Child Neglect
Torture of children is not limited to aggressive behavior such as hitting, yelling, punishing physically and so on, but the attitude of parents who neglect their children are also classified as a passive form of torture. Neglect can be interpreted as a lack of attention to social, emotional and physical proper, which are properly received by the child. This neglect may take the form:
• Lack of attention and affection they need
• Not pay attention to the need to eat, play, safety, health, protection (home) and education
• Ignore the child, not talking
• Discriminating between love and attention of her children

• Separated from parents, if there is no substitute for a stable and satisfactory

VIOLANCE AGAINST WOMEN

Compared to the year 2009, cases of domestic violence in 2010 was increased by approximately 6.25%. Major factor in domestic violence cases is the dominance of husbands against wives andeconomic factors. Economic violence experienced by victims arenot given much of a living for everyday living expenses, in any other form which the victim abandoned her husband deserted byher husband so that the automatic is also not given a living.Abandonment by husbands was much stimulated by thepresence of a third party (the affair). In some cases economic violence (neglect) there are victims (women) who finally got into prostitution (commercial sex workers), because he must bear thecost of living her and the children who live with him. While in the case of KDP (violence in courtship) either in the form of physical,psychological, or sexual abuse due to the uneven power relations, there is no courage to resist let alone fight. Now, women must have the courage to act in order to abuse against women are not getting worse. Women should no longer be viewed as being weak. Show your strength in the world. Let us eradicate violence against women ...!!


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POVERITY AND HUNGER IN INDONESIA

Most least 23.63 million of Indonesia's population is currentlythreatened by starvation, of whom 4.35 million live in West Java.The threat of hunger will only become more severe, and the numbers will multiply, as they are threatened by starvation is a resident of that expenditure per capita per month under $30000.00. Among those threatened by starvation, as many as272,198 of Indonesia's population, are in a most alarming state.Of that amount, as many as 50,333 came from West Java, inwhich 10,430 people live in Bandung Regency and 15,334people live in the District of Garut. They are classified asthreatened with starvation by the state's most alarming is thatspending per capita population of under $ 15,000.00 a month.These figures can be seen that the threat of starvation in theNational Socio Economic Survey report 1996 in the book.
I'm Cynthia Goddess, would like to invite you to eradicate poverty and hunger is not only happening in Indonesia, but also around the world. Our care is very meaningful to them. Donation you provide will be distributed to several social & humanity institutions in Indonesia.
We want to thank you for your attention and your concern for the fate of the younger generation.


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